INTJ

I recognize myself. Luckily I have found one female friend who understand's me, but sometimes it's quite hard to deal with all the emotional issues that she's experiencing and I'm not because I'm a INTJ. But I wouldn't want to loose her for no money in the whole world.

Didn't ever really think about the affect of being an INTJ on forming female friendships, but after reading the descriptions, some questions have been answered and insights have been confirmed. Was beginning to feel so alone with the difficulty of finding and/or maintaining female friendships. Seems like most women have a least one close friend. Some guys seem to be threatened by INTJ women as well; they want the more feeling and nurturing types.

well, as an INTJ woman, it is frankly extremely hard to meet like-minded men as well. It's just that we are too few in population overall.

It takes lots of work....but I have that personality type and have female friends.

When you think of a female INTJ, do not think of a dude in a lab coat.
Think of the sexy librarian, into literature and psychology.

INTJ, and similar type women largely prefer to be housewives over career women.
Look it up. Most women highly into things like science want to be good wives and moms instead of being caught up in a laboratory, classroom, library, or wherever while the kids are at home with a stranger who might teach them stupid things. Do you want your kids being taught something like 2+2=3? Or, something much less stupid by normal people's understandings, but that seems equally moronic to you?
Not to mention, INTJ, of all the intellectual types, does not give a crud about our broken, corrupted society's expectation for women to be career women who neglect our kids. INTJ has no problem rebelling against a broken system.
An INTJ woman is a woman. An intelligent woman. We have the brains that we know our place is with the kids, ensuring the continuation of our species. Our role is to conceive, birth, and RAISE the next generation of scientists. How exactly are we supposed to do that if we're in laboratories while our kids are off with some ESFP babysitter?
Leave the lab work to the men, and "get in the kitchen!"
We're INTJs, we don't need a PHD to be brilliant. The internet is a lot faster, and a lot cheaper than taking a college course, or buying lots of books. And, I don't know about you, but THIS INTJ woman is broke, so not only am I domestic, I scour the internet, or rely on my own intellect for growth, instead of relying on unreliable, expensive classes and books.

Frankly, if you want to increase the odds of meeting compatible women for friendship (or for more for those who like women romantically), you're going to have to face the fact that women of intellectual types are very home-bound, and a lot less likely to have careers or jobs. Try classes and workshops. Try conventions. And, try to find intelligent people who share your hobbies and interests.
On the bright side, we don't all have the same specializations, but we all have similar tastes. So, if YOU like a particular anime, movie, book, etc. you can guarantee other INTJs do, too. And, the less mainstream, the better. Things like Star Wars and Star Trek are WAY too popular to be used in this way. (Trust me, I've tried them. Now, I'm trying the anime BLEACH, thusfar without success, but at least it's a hobby I love.)

In case, it was unclear... My point was, you need to stop thinking that we INTJ ladies are in any way less feminine than an F type.
Those F types are often pretty masculine, relying on false femininity, like make up, to hide it. F versus T does not designate if the person is feminine or masculine. Try saying that to an F man, and he might punch you in the face, blow his top yelling at you, or say something highly cruel meant to break your heart.
In what way is a quiet woman who likes learning less feminine than a loud woman who hits people? Tell me that, and I'll concede you might be right in thinking being an INTJ makes it harder to be friends with other women.
T versus F is about which you prefer to rule your decisions, to guide you through life. In no way does being a T mean you don't have feelings. There is a very big difference between being an INTJ, and being a psychopath. A psychopath is not preferring to be a T, they simply have no F, because they have a deformed or damaged brain in areas concerning feelings, like autism. Do not confuse INTJs with psychopaths.
I'm an INTJ, and I'm highly emotional, and highly romantic. In fact, my specialization is the social sciences, especially in regard to humanity/psychology.
Or, going into fiction, Kurotsuchi Mayuri is an INTJ, and that guy is definitely emotional.
Or, how about all those romantic INTJ guys on forums boards asking advice in how best to pursue the object of their loving and romantic desires? That's right, I typed LOVING and romantic. If you've ever read the posts by these INTJ guys about us ladies, it's pretty innocent, indicating a higher leaning to love over lust. Lust is not practical, it's a waste, and INTJs are not very fond of waste. They might not drip romantic language in the posts, but it's certainly quietly romantic in its tendency to be utterly innocent and truly focused on compatibility. Maybe that looks robotic to an F, but it looks sweet to me.
And, I would hope, and expect that INTJ men feel the same way about us, on the rare occasion they really meet one of us. We are not cold-hearted b****es, we're simply smarter than the F and S women, quieter than the E woman, and both smarter and more reliable than the P women. (One could actually argue that INTJ is a feminine type, rather than a masculine one. It depends on one's preferences for themselves and their partner, and is often based off their parents. My father is an F, and my mother is a T, and in no way does that make my father more girly than my mother. My father's a mean son of a b***h.)